Skills to learn

Before I started counseling I learned that to change your actions you need to change your thoughts.  I intellectually got it but something seemed missing.  I didn’t realize the thing missing was my own connection to my emotions.  Counseling shed light into the dark parts of my mind and helped me start to connect my…

Enjoy

Sometimes I write a blog post that belongs on both blogs….today is one of those days. One of the challenges that I have is believing I deserve joy, happiness and fun.  I separate them because each one has its own nuance and source.  I was introduced to this concept when I read Life’s Uncertain, Eat…

Adventure

Requires risk taking.  Risk taking requires courage. Courage is not without fear.  Fear is the measure if risk.  I am spending my summer on a huge adventure.  I am learning that part of the reason it is an adventure is things don’t turn out well.  Other times it is wonderful.  Yesterday our adventure led us…