I tried forums and online communities but sadly I get super overwhelmed by the concept I must read all of it.  I actually tried with one forum.  I spent hours a day until I realized, I can’t do it.  I can’t read and respond to everyone.  I realize that is not the purpose of forums.  I acknowledge it is my own screwed up thinking that makes me slavishly try to read every post and every comment.  I know for some people these are very helpful.  I know that great information and support can occur.  Sadly for me, my personality, it doesn’t work for me.  I am attempting to teach myself to be different from this.  So far progress is slow.