I started this blog 5 years ago. There was very little online that wasn’t directed to the military with PTSD. CPTSD wasn’t mentioned yet. I wanted there to be a voice for those with no memory of before trauma. I wanted to say, there is life after trauma. I want to get out to anyone that wants to know that thriving is possible no matter to what depths you were pushed, dragged, or fell. There is a possibility to be your best self undefined by your trauma. To me, there is a big difference between allowing my past to influence my decisions and events from childhood grabbing me by the throat and slamming me to the ground. I choose to continue to share my message that becoming your best self is still your choice. I want every person to take back their power and say, “I stand here and this is who I am. No one decides for me. I choose to be this person.”